Who Housewife Hep?

"James, go and collect money from your dad for the babies pampers, fuel, and remind him to subscribe for the dstv. ehen James please buy crayfish and meat from the money he gives you"

Like Yoooooh don't do that!!!

Dear future "housewife to be"and already existing "Housewives"

Just before you conclude on becoming a housewife and still being a housewife, let me take you to the bible, the definition of a Virtuous Woman because i am sure if they call virtuous women out, you too will follow and match forward- Sit Down!:

 I studied the "Virtuous Woman" every lady is claiming to be these days even though they never understand what qualities the wife in the bible possessed that made her VIRTUOUS to her husband.

Reading from Amplified Version the verses that matter to us:

11: The heart of her husband trusts in her (with secure confidence), and he will have no lack of gain

13: She looks for wool and flax and works with willing hand in delight

14: She is like the merchant ships (abounding with treasure), She brings her (households) food from far away.

16: She considers a field before she buys or accepts it (expanding her business prudently); with her profits she plants fruitful vines in her vineyard

18: She makes sure her dealings are profitable

31: Let her own works praise her in the gates (of the city)

The Bible implores every woman to work! Bring profit to your husband, yourself, family, let YOUR OWN work praise you in the gates(society, country).

I really, really cannot understand why a woman who went through the four walls of a university, your fees paid by your parents, after all they invested on you, you will marry, stay at home to become housewife. You gossip, you watch irrelevant TV channels like Zee World, Telemundo, E-News and all that. You are so skilled in the kitchen,and on the bed alone! You have absolutely nothing to offer to your husband and to the society. You fight every girl your husband is cheating on you with, you go through his phones because you are idle, Common Ma! Get Busy!

Remember you had a life, your own life, your own set goals, dreams, aspirations before you got married. last last there are businesses that you can start, that is flexible enough to allow you carter for the kids, your husbands needs and still be relevant to the society.

Dear young girl aspiring to marry a rich man just because it is going to be a means of ending your "misery" and enrich your account (It is not a bad life goal) but remember, he has 2 legs, 2 hands, 1 head, same brain as you, his goals, dreams, his life.....You have yours too. You can actually make it on your own and become that HELPER God made us to be. Do not only be a helper in making babies and making his dreams come to life, HELP him by helping yourself achieve your own life goals. Two heads are better than one, if you want him to last long for you, ease him of that responsibilities a bit. Work, save and contribute too.

Shout out to every working married woman out there, shout out to my mother who has 9 children and a comfortable husband but still stood on her ground to work and become relevant, Laura Ikeji, she never stopped working even while pregnant, shout out to Tiannah of Tiannah Empire and to other women out there who can relate. 

WHAT IF HE DOES NOT ALLOW ME WORK OR OPEN MY OWN BUSINESS??

Well ,My next post is for you MEN who fall under that category and WOMEN who also are in that shoe.

xoxo

Bye!