Don't Be a Snitch

Another part of telling on people I have had with a person(and bad experience) is one that made me loose a friend!.

You know that saying that the best secret kept is the one that you keep to yourself! After that one and only experience I had, I personally began to consider getting a dog, at least they wont tell on you right?

Now some years back right after NYSC, a friend of mine, someone i could literally say was my sister, carbon copy of me and people often mistake us for twins, went through a horrible experience. It was a tough time for her and i was there for her all through it all. Then another friend of hers who happen to be our mutual friend came to me with a gist about this my friends horrible experience (how she got to hear of the gist is what i dunno) but anyways I neither confirmed but rather defended my friend about the gist this her friend brought to me though i knew the gist. 

I may have made the wrong deduction of even listening to her stupid gist rather than shut her down immediately. I never knew it was a trap she set for me, so she could put me and her friend at logger heads (she felt i took her friend from her). So this girl went straight back to our friend and told her I was gossiping with her name and that i confirmed all sorts of stories about her. 
Now this my friend cut me off without telling me what i did wrong and I felt like the worst person on the face of the planet and our very good relationship we had before then just got polluted and destroyed by a cunny and wicked person. This really hurt me and still does.

People need to realize that minding your business is the best way to go (as since that occasion when it comes to gist I'm a clam). The less you divulge information you shouldn't be divulging, the better.

That experience taught me also that sometimes no matter how painful an experience is, true freedom is only achieved when you forgive those that have wronged you, regardless of if the ask for it or not. When you decide to forgive someone, you are essentially liberating yourself from the anger and resentment caused by whoever has hurt you. ... 

The important point here is that forgiveness doesn't require that the person who hurt you is sorry;forgiveness is a way to let go and start fresh – either with that person or alone. I never knew how strong i was until i forgave someone who was not sorry, and accept apology i never received.

So here we go: Madam Obianuju, I know you know what you did to me was the height of betrayal and deceit buh i forgive you. Unfortunately we are no more friends cos you and your mouth are not loyal! 

Now side gist: There's this brother that I saw with woman  years ago in a wedding and he knows I knew his then babe (his babe was my model).I saw him with another babe in Enugu, i greeted them and coded and waka pass (whats my biz). Few months later they (him and the gf, my model)broke up o, onku said I was the one that told his gf what happened. Am i the only one that saw you with a girl onku? Eh kpele onku Cheetah, it is not Anurhee that is the source of your misfortune, please next time you see me at junction biko, ejo, wave at me oh. God bless you.  kikikikiki cheeta! 

Will do a give away post soon everyone, please watch out

Ok bye. TGIF!