MARRIAGE TALK WITH MY BOSS!! AWKWARD RIGHT? WELL…NOT REALLY
So, I was busy
minding my business and working hard today to ensure I cleared my table then
get ready for TGIF (omo jaye jaye) when my boss knocked me out of my fantasy
arrrggghhhh!!!! He then summons me to the board room together with all the
girls in the company.
Huh?.
Sharply I carried
out a mental checklist to ensure I didn’t have any unfinished work or did
anything wrong. So he sits us down and he goes like “this is girls talk with
the boss, let’s talk about MARRIAGE!” hiaaaaaan…… (Me I grab sit, pen, note pad,
everything) and here he goes…..
“do you think
women are treated unfairly in marriage”? Every girl in the room shared their views on
what they thought about the imbalance and unfair ways women have been treated
in the society kinikor kinikor with so much anger, piled up frustration,
examples and all that. Then Oine (one of us) said what got me thinking. She said
men have forgotten God commanded them to love their wives as Christ loves the
church (huh! I didn’t know this one oh). Now a question comes to my mind “how
did Christ love the church”?
I will ask my
pastor on Sunday… cos some of these men will just be loving person as if na
club house lol.
Well he took us through 2 hours of interesting talk on men, marriage and the society. I noted these points:
- . Men behave the way they do, due to the fact that they have buying power; this literally means one buyer with multiple sellers. Girls just full everywhere anyhow.
- . We do have a lot of imbalance in the world (Society has a bias about girls) ……. But
Regardless of the
buuhaha do not let the imbalance, imbalance you too.
As you are there getting
angry at men remember, some Women are as guilty as men! They use their body as commercial enterprise
and submit to any man hereby changing men’s perspectives on women. Some of
these men do not even have the patience to woo person any longer. (sharp sharp
things)
A lot he said but
ended on the note that regardless of the imbalance in the society, having wrong
mind-set about guys will lead you to make wrong judgement on men. So?
Carve a niche for
yourself, separate yourself, and define yourself. Go for a man whose vision is
big enough to support yours so he can support you or a man who feels confident
in his own level.
Let your heart be
pure and your eyes open he said.
What’s your take on this…………?
Time to sign out
from work glam reader. Sunday is Big Brother
Naija? Aha!
Signing off for the week….
chilled star raddler on my mind.
Kisses.
Bye
MARRIAGE TALK WITH MY BOSS!! AWKWARD RIGHT? WELL…NOT REALLY
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Nice Boss you have I must say. Well said on marriage issue. " carve a niche for yourself, separate yourself and define yourself" Thumbs up girl
ReplyDeleteExciting boss
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ReplyDeletehmmm...Uju why then do some women regard "all men" as "DOGS"...guess that makes 'em women "BITCHES' right? Lols!
ReplyDeleteNice feed gurl!
Waht a wawu....I love the message boobae
ReplyDeleteWow!!! Can my bosses boss be my boss? Good one.
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